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		<title>13 Magical Things to Do in a Relationship</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you know that you have found the perfect woman for you, make sure that she feels the same about you. You are crazy about her and want to make her feel happy with you, that&#8217;s why you are ready to make all the sacrifices to impress her, to show her how much you care [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you know that you have found the perfect woman for you, make sure that she feels the same about you. You are crazy about her and want to make her feel happy with you, that&#8217;s why you are ready to make all the sacrifices to impress her, to show her how much you care about her, or to not permit that routine to come into your relationship.</p>
<p>With all this sacrifices to show her your feelings, to keep your relationship as cool as it was at the beginning, you feel that you have to make something more interesting. That&#8217;s why you should induce “magic “into your relationship even if you are hopeless romantic or not.  To add more intimacy, love, understanding and compassion in any relationship is always welcome.</p>
<p>So, here are some magical things to do in order to impress your partner in a good way and increase your relationship:</p>
<p>1.Surprise her by taking her lunch and coffee at bed right after she woke up; if you didn&#8217;t do this before she will definitely be impressed; also cooking a pizza for her and cut it in a heart shape it is very romantic; a woman will always find interesting a man who is able to cook for her, no matter what kind of food it is;  even if it wouldn&#8217;t be too tasty, she will appreciate that you have tried</p>
<p>2.Set up a picnic in the park; even it is an usually day, prepare all you need for a picnic, go get your girlfriend and go for a walk; don&#8217;t tell her from the beginning what you plan to, let it be a surprise; a &#8216; going out&#8217; at a picnic in the fresh air is always welcome and relaxing</p>
<p>3.Send her flowers anytime and anywhere, that is unexpected; women love flowers, so sending her flowers without any reason will demonstrate her that you really care about  and make her feel loved and special; the most probably that she will answer you with the same love you show her</p>
<p>4.Fill her apartment with balloons or something she likes, maybe it&#8217;s a crazy idea, but it usually works to impress girls; it will be seen as a funny thing by your partner and remember that some fun is necessary in any relationship</p>
<p>5.If you are good at writing, write her a poem, or create a book for her with a special dedication; this will definitely work if she  love poems;  don&#8217;t begin to write a poem only if you know that you are good at it, other way you will screw up</p>
<p>6.Reading romantic poetry in the middle of the living room on a blanket in soft candlelight, it is a very good way to offer your partner a  wonderful evening; women are often more romantic than men, that&#8217;s why they like to be surprised by men with romantic ideas</p>
<p>7.Massages are always magic when done right; buying different flavored edible  bars to experiment with each other can be more surprising; but if you are not good at making massage, go to a spa together and get a couples massage together</p>
<p>8.Go for a romantic meal; make reservations at a beautiful restaurant and create a romantic atmosphere with candles, roses and slow music; offer her a night to never forget</p>
<p>9.Going for a walk at night and looking at the stars and moon is almost such romantic as the restaurant, and is cheapest; so it is not necessary to have a lot of  money to offer your partner a lovely evening; it can be very interesting</p>
<p>10.If you can afford it, take her in holiday in an exotic place, like a beautiful island, only you two alone, with sunshine and plenty of water, where you will spend a wonderful time together, and will not be disturb by friends, family, relatives</p>
<p>11.But, if you can&#8217;t afford to go in a exotic place, to the sea,  there&#8217;s no problem; bubble baths together are always magic times;</p>
<p>12.Surprise visits; surprise her with your visits when she is not expecting at all; while you are able to surprise her in a good way, she will not lose interest in you</p>
<p>13.Don&#8217;t be afraid to talk sweet nothings into her ear; make the woman feel good by saying sweet and romantic things to her at any given time; as i sad, women love romance</p>
<p>Ovi Dogar</p>
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		<title>12 Barriers to Effective Communication &#8211; Beware of These Relationship Killers</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are 12 barriers to effective communication that destroys any type of relationship. Be sure to overcome these roadblocks if you want happy relationships. 1. Criticizing. Criticism involves judgmental states that usually put down a person. &#8220;Don&#8217;t do it that way&#8221;, &#8220;You&#8217;re wrong&#8221;, &#8220;You&#8217;re not very good at&#8230;&#8221;, and &#8220;You need to lose weight&#8221; are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are 12 barriers to effective communication that destroys any type of relationship. Be sure to overcome these roadblocks if you want happy relationships.</p>
<p>1. <em>Criticizing</em>. Criticism involves judgmental states that usually put down a person. &#8220;Don&#8217;t do it that way&#8221;, &#8220;You&#8217;re wrong&#8221;, &#8220;You&#8217;re not very good at&#8230;&#8221;, and &#8220;You need to lose weight&#8221; are a few simple criticisms. We think criticism changes people, though it only reveals our own problems. Kill this barrier before it kills your relationships.</p>
<p>2. <em>Labeling</em>. Labels are names. An extreme form of labels is name-calling. &#8220;You&#8217;re a jerk&#8221;, &#8220;You are silly&#8221;, and &#8220;I think you&#8217;re mean&#8221; are some examples of labeling. Labeling is a barrier to communication because it categorizes people. It assumes people to have characteristics and destroys uniqueness that makes an enjoyable relationship.</p>
<p>3. <em>Diagnosing</em>. A diagnosis is one of the more complex barriers to effective communication. It involves reading into a person&#8217;s behavior. I call it &#8220;playing the amateur psychologist&#8221;. Some examples of the diagnosing barrier are: &#8220;You&#8217;re just jealous about&#8230;&#8221;, &#8220;You need to be happier&#8221;, and &#8220;Stop trying to antagonize me.&#8221;</p>
<p>4. <em>Praising</em>. People are always surprised when they hear praise is a communication barrier. Praise is not always a barrier because it depends on how it is given. Praise is so often poorly given as it makes people &#8211; especially children &#8211; dependent on receiving verbal rewards. &#8220;You&#8217;re a good boy&#8221;, &#8220;I love you for doing what you did&#8221;, and &#8220;You&#8217;re a lovely person because you think about me&#8221;. Learn to praise a person&#8217;s behavior, and be specific, to avoid evaluative praise and making people dependent on your praise.</p>
<p>5. <em>Ordering</em>. Orders are controlling statements to get people doing something. They are akin to dictatorship. &#8220;Go wash the dishes&#8221;, &#8220;Stop complaining&#8221;, and &#8220;Stop fighting with&#8230;&#8221; Orders force people to comply based on authoritative power. The result is resistant change and resentment. It is very common for people to rebel against orders so they regain their freedom. Psychologists call this &#8220;psychological reactance&#8221;.</p>
<p>6. <em>Threatening</em>. A threat is similar to an order, except it has emphasis on punishment. &#8220;Go wash the dishes or I won&#8217;t cook for you tomorrow night&#8221;, &#8220;Stop complaining or you&#8217;ll be sent to your room&#8221;, &#8220;Stop fighting with&#8230; or you&#8217;ll be grounded&#8221;. Just like orders, threats create fear, temporary results, and resentment &#8211; while killing a relationship.</p>
<p>7. <em>Questioning</em>. How could questioning be a barrier to effective communication? Like praise, there are types of questioning that make it a roadblock to good <a href="http://www.ramadapeoria.com" target=_self>relationship communication</a>. Rhetorical questions is one common form of poor questioning. Examples include, &#8220;Why do you disobey me?&#8221; &#8220;Why do you always do wrong?&#8221; and &#8220;What about my needs? You constantly ignore them.&#8221;</p>
<p>These are 7 of 12 barriers to effective communication. When you overcome all 12 barriers to effective communication, you communicate openly, intimately, understand you&#8217;re partner &#8211; all the while creating change in your relationships.</p>
<p>Joshua Uebergang</p>
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